Finding a polyamory friendly therapist is not the same problem as finding a therapist. In practice, most licensed clinicians can hold a decent conversation about relationships, and many of them are kind. Far fewer have read anything about non-monogamy since graduate school. Fewer still will tell you that before you have paid for three sessions….
Ask most people what happens at a polyamory meetup and they picture a club night: leather, ropes, a dress code. That picture is wrong in two directions at once. Kink and polyamory are separate things that happen to share a lot of people and a lot of stigma. Working out where they overlap, and where…
Ask any polyamorous community whether neurodivergent people are over-represented in it, and you will get a confident yes. The claim is everywhere, repeated so often it has hardened into common knowledge. So what does the evidence actually support about polyamory and neurodivergence? The honest answer is more interesting than the slogan. It is also far…